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The biggest difference is the symmetry of the molecules. In acetone, the carbon-oxygen bond is pulling in the opposite direction (polarity) from the rest of the atoms. in the ether, the molecule is symmetrical so the polarities mostly cancel out.
O || C O / \ / \ CH3 CH3 CH3 CH3 acetone dimethyl ether
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